“A very long time in the past, you talked about you’d by no means shaved or waxed your bikini line,” wrote a reader named Emma. “Might you elaborate on why? I’ve at all times puzzled!” Nicely, I’m blissful to share…
My reply is admittedly easy: I’ve delicate pores and skin, and I’m a wuss, haha. I don’t wish to go right into a waxing place and get my hair ripped out; it sounds so painful, omg. Plus, I really feel high-quality having hair there, and my feeling is that if I’m going to mattress with somebody, I need us each to really feel so excited and heat and blissful and shut that we’re high-quality with regardless of the precise hair state of affairs is on both of our our bodies. One caveat: I don’t have plenty of hair, and I believe my reply could be completely different if I had extra rising exterior my swimsuit space.
Additionally, once I was getting again onto the relationship scene, my sister advisable this bikini trimmer. I attempted it and favored it, and now I take advantage of it at any time when I’m within the temper — in all probability each couple months — to have much less hair, without having to totally shave or wax. It’s utterly painless and type of enjoyable to mess around with.
Ideas? So curious to listen to what you do and the way you’re feeling about it! Each physique is completely different, and folks have all types of preferences and experiences. As with all physique/intercourse/parenting/relationships/life questions, “Good for her, not for me.” xoxo
P.S. Twist: I just like the phrase “moist”, and did you have got intercourse in your wedding ceremony night time? Additionally, 5 methods to speak to youngsters about consent, and why I usually discuss intervals with my sons.
(Photographs from Oddobody.)
